Stern Summer Camp Newsletter 64
 
I am not certain how to even begin to describe this past weekend at our 2005 reunion.  As we have been planning the event it was inconceivable to me that we could ever duplicate the warmth, energy, enthusiasm and passion that we had experienced in our 2003 reunion.  But in fact our second reunion this past weekend did exactly that.  As all the SSCers and their families began to arrive on Friday, we could feel the excitement mount as each of us embraced one another for what was to be an unforgettable weekend once again.  For those of us who had attended our last reunion, it was continuing the events, fond memories and friendships that were reignited two years ago.  For those of you who joined us for the first time it was such an excitement to meet and hug again after some 40 years. It is hard to capture the feelings as we all gathered together again in the newly decorated Tower Board Room.
 
Before I describe the events of the weekend, I want to thank the many people who helped make the reunion such wonderful event.  Elaine, Elyce, Jack, Alan Stamm, Leslie and Ruth Brecher Sheradsky helped plan the entire weekend.  Without your help, suggestions and participation, the reunion could have not succeeded.   Paul provided invaluable help during the reunion.  He was always there when we needed a hand.  Rosalee and Jack brought forth all the memories of Norman reading to us during those many years at camp each Friday night.   Steven Kuhl was kind to send bottles of various drinks from his company for all of us to enjoy.  Steve, thank you for your generosity and thoughtfulness.  To Nancy Roemer Gire another special thanks for providing us with those great Stern Summer Camp Lanyards which we proudly displayed all weekend. 
 
After our Friday night dinner together in the main dining room, we all joined in the SSC traditional shabbat service that was led so beautifully by Leslie Fox Cooper . She led the service reminiscent of the services that were performed so many years ago by Sandy at camp.  Leslie was joined by Joan Fuld who lit the candles and by Rosalee and Jack Cohn who read from the old Shalom Alechem stories.  Following the services, Steve Bucky spoke to us about the impact that camp has had on his personal and professional life.  He described how his counseling of professional athletes mirrors some of the experiences that he encountered and the values which we exhibited as campers at SSC.  We then viewed the camp movies from the early years, 1948 through 1957.  The music, which serves as background, added a whole other dimension and provided both the sights and sounds of our early years at camp.  How gratifying it was when we yelled out names of those we recognized from the early years and as we sang the songs from camp as we did so many years ago.
 
After breakfast on Saturday, many of us headed out to Sam's Point for a short hike to the place that all SSCers remember.  We picked blueberries along the way and enjoyed the views.  Others remained at the Nevele to swim and visit with one another.  Following lunch at the Nevele we all headed to camp.  For some of us it was another visit to the site that was our home for so many summers.  For others, it was the first visit back after at least 40 years.  For all of us, it was again that magical setting which we remember with such affection. 
 
We began the afternoon at camp with the traditional flag raising led by Elaine and Alan.  They were joined by the Bucky family who helped in the pledge and singing of God Bless America.  Then, once again as a camp, we sang all the verses of Tramp Tramp Tramp the verses from the early years and those from the later years.  What memories that evoked as we faced the camp and embraced one another.  We then had refreshments and walked around the camp grounds remembering all the activities, buildings, rocks, trees and events which occurred in camp.  Many of us walked again to Schmultzes.  Linda Hanauer even took back various artifacts from the Schmultzes' old house to make a collage. Linda's artistic talent may have begun in arts and crafts during the days at camp.  Linda, we all will look forward to the results of your efforts. 
 
After dinner on Saturday, we were led at a virtual campfire by Elyce.  Elyce led us in songs from camp and we had a special treat when Joanie Weisenbeck Knowlton playing a guitar led us in The Marvelous Toy. Paul relayed some of his recollections and stories of camp.  Some had never been told before.  Many of you remember the Mohawk haircut he had the barber give him right before parent's day.  Ellen was not happy.  He recalled how he punished me one night because I would not stop talking after lights were out.  He had me sit in the bathroom and forgot about me.  Ellen was not happy.  He remembered how when the pool was first built, they did not have the proper chemicals to clean the pool.  Sometimes the inspectors came without warning.  Ellen was not happy.  Nevertheless, Paul was and will always be one of the most well liked and respected of all counselors ever to attend Stern.  He still has a special charm.
 
Dick Muller recalled 1949 when Ellen and Gerry kept the camp open for an extra week because of a polio epidemic in New York City.  Elyce then pulled the surprise of the reunion when she handed out a new camp song which she had written for the Saturday night activity.  She handed it out on blue and gold paper and then announced that we were now having a mini color war.  The Blue and Gold teams went to separate locations near the Tower Room to prepare for their color war entrance to the tune of Love and Marriage with the new lyrics written by Elyce.  With all the intensity and talent that we had as youngsters at camp, we all prepared for our entrance and song.  It was so energetic and hilarious at the same time.  For a moment in time, we were back at camp having our color war.  We ended in a tie.
 
Following the singing we viewed the second half of the video covering the years 1960 through 1965.  Again we were transformed to those care free years of our youth.  The music and films transformed us back as campers and counselors. 
 
On Sunday morning we all gathered at the softball field for yet another SSC softball game.  What a thrill to again play with my fellow campers and counselors and their families for one more game.  Ernie hit the long distance ball of the game for a home run.  It gave him a special pleasure that the ball went over my head.  Ernie still has the talent. 
 
After our lunch we all sadly said goodbye till we meet again.  When I left the Nevele, I had that same sad feeling which I encountered every year upon leaving camp.  I am certain that I was not alone with that feeling.  It was an amazing weekend. 
 
I have attached the list of those of us who attended the camp reunion.  If there are any errors, changes or additions, please let me know and I will make the corrections for the next newsletter.
 
Finally, I have had many requests for copies of the DVD containing the camp movies.  For those of you who wish to have copies, particularly those of you who did not attend the reunion, I will plan to order another set of DVDs which I would be happy to mail to those of you who would like your own copies.  The DVDs span the life of the camp from 1948 through 1965 with musical background.  The cost for the DVD and mailing it will be $10.  If you are interested please let me know and send your checks by July 31.  You should make the check out to Stern Summer Camp Reunion.  It would be helpful if you could include your address on a label which I could merely attach to the package.  If that is not possible, then just make sure that you send me the address where you want the DVD to be sent.  My address is 2 Brighton Terrace, Gaithersburg, MD 20877
 
Again, I want to thank all of you who made the reunion so unforgettable.  I know that we all came away knowing that the weekend was very special to all of us.  We were an SSC family once again. 
 
Finally, I want to wish everyone a very happy and safe Independence Day holiday.
 
                        Lenny
 

 

       Now here are reflections from another keyboard:

 

Alan’s Corner

 

        A wonder to behold it was

        With many faces bright . . .

 

         From the start of Reunion II right through to the farewell hugs, we rarely stood still – unlike ‘The Marvelous Toy’ that went pop when it stopped
and whirrr when it stood still
. . . and that continues enchanting children of all ages. 

 

         With a live and recorded soundtrack featuring that delightful tune and dozens of others – including one receiving its world premiere – time-erasing scenes came into focus at every turn.  On trails and at tables, with songs and softballs, looking at candles lit on Sabbath and others floating 40 years ago, we shared magic in the mountains.

 

         It seemed as though the ‘Play’ button had been pressed for a dream-like weekend movie, with emotion-rich moments from past summers spliced together with scenes from the first weekend of Summer 2005 -- featuring some of the same people, the same T-shirt designs, the same jump-for-joy enthusiasm.                 

 

         It was real and it was on video.  Blink and the scenes blended.

 

         The years have gone by too quickly it seems . . .

 

         That surreal experience of watching ourselves become ourselves was created by the video disc that Lenny assembled masterfully from 1948-65 chronicles Gerry Bucky filmed.  We saw campers and counselors who were as emotional and spirited as those watching with shouts and sentimentality.

 

         Something else was up there on the TV monitor in front of our reunion lounge . . . something that wasn’t visible in any single scene and that pulled into focus only later, only after an unexpected event the second evening. We truly were watching ourselves become ourselves – changing from adolescents into reunion participants who now were doing what we did again. 

 

         This “back to the future” time warp emerged from scenes of us sharpening softball skills, appreciating nature, learning to swim, relying on each other, displaying creativity and competing with unbridled energy. Each of those vignettes, every one just listed, is in the video and was re-enacted last weekend. Then and now, we swung wooden bats while friends sat alongside the field, tramped to Sam’s Point, jumped into the pool, learned about each other and showed that competitive juices are a powerfully creative force. Only an accordion was missing.    

 

           Our eyes nearly popped right out of our heads

           And we gave a squeal of glee! 

 

          The we’re-still-campers continuum was dramatized most vividly when Elyce Wakerman threw a curveball – not from the mound, but as she wrapped up Saturday night’s songfest. Her change-up pitch, the unexpected event mentioned earlier, was an interactive challenge that turned audience members into performers . . . transforming seated alumni into rabidly intense competitors.                  

           Our reunion entertainment director sprung a Color War-style surprise, splitting us into two teams to rehearse and present an SSC song she crafted to the melody of Love and Marriage.

 

           Off we scurried to separate corners of the Nevele Tower – which suddenly resembled camp even more – to show that competitive fires still burned white-hot. Again, we behaved much as we had during real Color War – fierce, yet friendly, rivals . . . watching ourselves become our old selves.   

          Twenty minutes later, compressed-time versions of an SSC pageant glowed with choreography, vocal flourishes, animated gestures and even marshmallow-tossing.  The resulting tie that our song-writing judge declared was as fair and balanced as . . . well, as just about everything we recall from summers down Sheldon Road.

 

           Other high points included:

q       Joan Weisenbeck, guitar in hand, leading us through The Marvelous Toy, a 1962 song by Tom Paxton that has been adapted in part for this column’s subheads. Joan husband, Stephen, and their three children watched the 1957-65 camper reprise her role as folk singing icon of SSC. (And yes, Paxton recorded his song before Peter, Paul and Mary popularized it.)

q       The uphill stroll to the familiar Sam’s Point overlook, where early-ripening blueberries hung from bushes -- but not for long.

q       Another pilgrimage to camp, where Steve Bucky, niece Debby Bucky Birrer and her daughter Lynne raised the U.S. flag as we pledged allegiance to it and sang God Bless America. That, too, was a replay of video footage shot when 48 stars flew from the identical flagpole.

q       A softball game that included a home run by Ernie Gutmann, two hits to the outfield by Ralph Dannheisser, 67, and pinch-running by Annette Haendel Levine, a 1953-54 camper. 

 

          “We can go back,” exulted Lenny, who smoothed our time travel with flawless arrangements and the keepsake DVD that rolls along merrily with pop songs and camp classics appropriate to each year. 

 

          Steve Bucky, who Annette recalled as “just a little curly-haired boy,” said over breakfast: “I’m amazed by the instant warmth and friendship we all share after not seeing each other for decades.  My parents wouldn’t understand this.”

 

          And so it went, wonderment flowing with the wine as SSC’ers tapped into a wellspring of identity.  We embraced the past, wrapping arms around memories of special summers and the people who share them.          

          Who else understands that magic?

 

          None of us knows just what it is

         But we love it just like SSC!

 

- - AlaN